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Cultivating Empathy and Compassion (In-Person & YouTube)
Sunday Services are Livestreamed on YouTube
by Reverend Tom Capo
American novelist and essayist Leslie Jamison wrote: “Empathy isn’t just something that happens to us—a meteor shower of synapses firing across the brain—it’s also a choice we make: to pay attention, to extend ourselves. It’s made of exertion, that dowdier cousin of impulse. Sometimes we care for another because we know we should or because it’s asked for, but this doesn’t make our caring hollow. The act of choosing simply means we’ve committed ourselves to a set of behaviors greater than the sum of our individual inclinations. This confession of effort chafes against the notion that empathy should always rise unbidden, that genuine means the same thing as unwilled, that intentionality is the enemy of love. But I believe in intention, and I believe in work.” Reverend Tom will explore how we might cultivate empathy and compassion in our relationships.